Dating in a fashionable manner!

Ok ladies here is a helpful tip when you are being courted. This is definitely a self experience tip. I was recently asked out by a guy. Now it has been a while since I even placed myself in a position to even be asked out. Now that the position presented itself I did not go running in like an obese chick into an all you can eat buffet for 7.99. I strutted in like a semi hungry skinny chick that isn't sure she will eat at all from an hor d'oeuvres tray. That meaning I wasn't eager to just accept the first offer he threw my way. There has to be rules for every woman when dating someone for the first time. So here we are and there is only one rule that you should absolutely abide by.

This rule my fellow ladies is don't be so available. Here's my scenario text conversation;
The Guy: "Hi how are you?"
Me: " I'm fine and you?"
The Guy: "I'm doing good. So what are you up to?"
Me: "I'm busy."
The Guy: "Oh ok.So you want to get a bite to eat?"

-Okay stop right here. How are you to know if this is a Dutch question? Meaning is this an I pay for my meal date you pay for yours? You simply reply in this manner remaining a lady but make it clear that you are not treating yourself to a date.-

Me: "You need to give me a five day notice if you would like to treat me to a lunch date."

-That right there just told him three things. 1. You are not going out with him unless he pays for the date. 2. Your not easily available. 3. You have standards and you are running the show whether he realizes it or not.-

The Guy: "Oh no problem I know you're a busy woman. We can grab lunch on South Beach then hang out when you get some free time. I'll give you a call before hand of course to clear with your schedule."

Me: "Sure that would be nice just give me a heads up. Ok I'm working, I'll give you a call later. Take care."
The Guy: "Ok, you do the same and I look forward to hearing from you."

-That was easy right? Not for most ladies, young or old. Females have tendency to behave like a guy offering to take them out will only come around once in a blue moon. Not true. You have to remember that everyone has many opportunities to go on as many dates as they present to themselves. Don't sell your sexy short. Give yourself credit for being approachable in the first place. You are as sexy as you appear in demeanour. If you don't feel sexy because of whatever reason, take care of it. Any who, we just shared with you the most important tip of dating: DON'T BE SO AVAILABLE OR GULLIBLE WHEN DATING! Ok Bye.